If you haven’t checked it out yet, go to Cleveland.com and read Elton Alexander’s story on Chris Singletary from today’s Plain Dealer.
It’s a great look at a young man who has been through more than I can imagine. In fact, as Elton will tell you, there’s even more to his story than could fit into his feature story.
As some of you know, I’m a big believer in Control Theory, so I’m particularly impressed that Singletary refuses to talk about the problems he’s had as if things were “happening” to him. Instead, he talks about choices. To me, that’s the sign of a young man who gets it.
Elton ends the story with Chris’ words at Saturday’s post-game press conference at the M.A.C. Center. I thought you all might like to read the complete transcript of Singletary’s emotional thank-you to Kent State following the Miami game. It was from the heart, and it showed just how much he appreciated the way everyone at Kent State stood beside him during the last four years:
CHRIS SINGLETARY: “When God puts people in your life to help you through tough situations. You guys that have been here these four years, you guys have seen the bad. You guys have seen the good. Through it all Kent State stuck with me. That means a lot to me and means a lot to my family, and is something I will never forget.
“These last four years are something I will always cherish. There is no telling where I would have been.
F’RANK HENRY-ALA: “There he goes again, crying,”
CHRIS SINGLETARY: ”These last four years I’ve spent more time with these guys, the coaches, Mr. (Laing) Kennedy than my own family, than my own daughter. It means a lot. I’ve had bad days. I’ve had rough days, but these guys help me get through it, Mr. Kennedy help me get through it. That means so much.
“The first incident, they could have easily gave up one me, kicked me to the side. But, they have seen something in me I probably didn’t even see in myself. Words can’t explain. Guys wonder why I be so into it, well, this is all I got. Frank, intelligent, pre-med. Not me. It’s all I got.
“I thank God for putting people like Mr. Kennedy, the whole athletic department, my coaches, my teammates in my life. It’s a blessing.”
“For me it means so much, because I have been through so much, and yet people continue to have trust and faith in me. The days when I don’t even have faith in myself, just want to give up and go home, be with my daughter and be with my family you guys have done so much for me. I just want to take this time to say ‘thank you.’